Those Places Thursday: Lakeview Cemetery (Penticton, British Columbia)

Lakeview Cemetery

For today’s post, I was originally going to cheat a little and turn “Tombstone Tuesday” into “Tombstone Thursday.” Upon perusing some other genealogy blogs, however, I noticed that a few authors have written about cemeteries for Those Places Thursday. So I’ve decided to go with that title/theme instead (after all, Those Places Thursday is one of the “official” Thursday themes at GeneaBloggers!). Don’t worry, if you prefer “Tombstone Thursday”, this post could just as easily be called that.

Today’s entry (for the first time in this blog!) also focuses on my husband’s family — specifically, on his paternal great grand uncle, Gladwyn Washington Haskett.

I don’t have a photo of Gladwyn available to share, although I hope to be able to post one eventually (I think my in-laws might have some). Here’s what I do know about him: he was born December 14, 1889 in Markdale, Ontario; he died November 1, 1959 in Penticton, British Columbia. And he was the identical twin brother of Merwyn Young Haskett, my husband’s great grandfather (whom my husband also happens to be named after).

That’s about the gist of what we know about Gladwyn. A few months ago, however — after we’d already planned a trip to British Columbia that would take us through the Okanagan region — my husband (who was doing some genealogy research of his own) coincidentally stumbled across the location of Gladwyn’s grave online somewhere (not Find A Grave, but a similar site). The cemetery just happens to be very close to the area we planned to visit. Merwyn wanted to stop by there on our way home; and, of course, I was more than happy to agree to this request!

(I’m not sure that I’d hang out in one after dark, but in general, I actually kind of like cemeteries. And I love them for genealogy research! I’ve visited a few of my own family members’ graves on other trips; and several of my husband’s family are buried in a cemetery right here in town, which I’ve been through a few times.)

So, on April 14th (my 34th birthday) we made our way from Summerland, BC to nearby Penticton, BC. Lakeview Cemetery was right in Penticton and turned out to be quite appropriately named. It’s a peaceful, well-kempt resting place with a beautiful view of Okanagan Lake.

Lakeview Cemetery in Penticton

Merwyn had the forethought to request a map before we left, which he’d printed and brought along. So we had no trouble finding Gladwyn’s grave. It looked a little bit in need of some TLC, but ultimately wasn’t in too bad shape for being over 50 years old.

Gladwyn Haskett's grave

Here’s a slightly closer view:

Gladwyn W. Haskett

Now, neither of us knows the names of Gladwyn’s descendants (or if he even has descendants); we’re also not sure how or when he ended up in British Columbia (several from his Haskett branch still live in Ontario; and many others wound up here in Olympia or elsewhere in the United States). I was kind of hoping to find clues about some of these things at the cemetery (for example, other “Haskett” gravestones). Unfortunately, we didn’t find any such clues.

However, right by Gladwyn’s grave, we did find this:

Gladwyn's grave

It’s kind of hard to see in the photo, but right underneath Gladwyn’s gravestone, there looks to be a much smaller stone for a Helen Ruth Slater. Under her name, I can sort of make out a birth date (February 5, 1921?) and date of death (October 9, 2001?), along with the words “Always loved.”

Initially, I thought her name sounded familiar; but later, after searching online, I couldn’t find anything about this particular Helen Ruth Slater — or any connection between any “Helen” and Gladwyn Haskett. (And Merwyn and I are, of course, curious! We aren’t sure if she’s a daughter, a much-younger wife, or a random woman who was for some reason buried right next to Gladwyn.)

Anyhow, since we still had a 7-hour drive home ahead of us, we didn’t stay at the cemetery for very long that day. But I was glad that Merwyn got to pay his respects to his great grand uncle, and honored to be along for the visit. While I’m certainly at peace with the fact that Merwyn and I can’t have kids, occasionally I’ll feel regretful that nobody will ever be able to share and combine our unique family histories. It still doesn’t keep me from wanting to know as much about my husband’s genealogy as I do about mine!


6 responses

  1. The only two Hasketts in British Columbia who answered my emails hadn’t heard of him or any of his siblings. The only Ontario based Haskett who responded – former London, ON, Mayor Dianne Haskett – didn’t recognize names BUT may have recognized their Mother (Mary Jane Rorke, sometimes known as Minnie or MJ) AND knew the same family story of three brothers being granted a land lease in Ireland for services under Cromwell.

  2. Hi, Tamara.

    I just found your blog through Pinterest and thought I’d let you know that you can search vital registrations (like deaths from 1872 to 1992) for British Columbia at BC Archives online at

    I did a basic search for Gladwyn and found his death registration and its image. It gives interesting details, such as he was a widower, his father’s name is not known, his mother was Mary Jane Rorke, and that his son (N?) G. Haskett was the informant.

    Gladwyn’s twin brother Mervyn doesn’t come up in the search results and neither does Helen Ruth Slater (she died after the cut-off date of 1992).

  3. Thanks Yvonne! We actually know the name of Merwyn and Gladwyn’s father, it’s George.

  4. […] know the name, but we took pictures of the beautiful location and my wife shared the story on her genealogy blog. Within two weeks of posting we were contacted by Gladwyn’s grandniece, Jennifer, who by […]

  5. All this talk of Georges and Murrays makes me think you are talking of my relatives. I’m of the Ontario Hasketts… which are related to the Hasketts of SW Ontario (including the former Mayor), but as far as my research goes… not the bulk of the eastern US hillbilly Hasketts.

    1. Bill, Don’t know if after a year you’ll notice this reply, but Dianne Haskett and I tracked down our common ancestor meaning you and I are in the same section of the tree too. I can track my specific branch back to Thomas Haskett, born in Boriskane, Tipperary in 1750. (One source says his name was Joseph but the majority say Thomas.)

      His son William Milford Haskett is the common ancestor for me an Dianne – I’d be interested to learn where your family fits in. If you happen to stumble upon this reply my email address is

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